Silly question, right? How can you ever have enough to stop the madness when it comes to the ways adults often interact with children who have differences? We can make it better. We can train adults in more loving and effective methods, and we can teach […]
Read more →Ever wonder why people get “stuck?” Is it fear of change? Staying in the comfort zone of what you have gotten used to, even if it’s not really what you want and dream of? Listening to the internal critic and pessimism, resigning yourself to helplessness, in effect […]
Read more →Thank you to everyone who purchased a copy of my latest book Counseling Tools for Kids in Schools. I would love to hear your feedback about it! Here is what I just published: The Dream Book How to make your dreams come true Transforming the essence of […]
Read more →IEP Behavioral and Counseling Goal Menu Aggression _________ will demonstrate being mad the right way ___% of observed trials. _________ will use appropriate strategies to calm themselves with prompts ___% of observed trials. _________ will allow themselves to be mad or frustrated without hurting 90% of observed […]
Read more →How does cognitive-behavioral therapy work
How does cognitive-behavioral therapy work? Your thoughts are so powerful they create your reality. Where do your feelings come from? What happens, or how you think about what happens? For example, it could start raining, and I could think, “Oh no- this is going to ruin everything, […]
Read more →Why are smart, capable kids giving up on school work?
Creating a Sense of Purpose Why are smart, capable kids giving up on school work? While there is no one universally true answer to this question, I have some ideas. One is the digital media and games that are intentionally created to be addictive by stimulating the […]
Read more →Video Game Addiction How can you monitor and manage your children’s use of the internet? Do you think it’s a good idea to let them have connection in their room or should they be in a family common area where their use can be supervised and monitored? […]
Read more →Brainy Kids websites and video games Google earth- www.earth.google.com view maps, satellite photos, galaxies, canyons in the oceans BBC Human Body and Mind- www.bbc.co.uk/science/humanbody Build a skeleton, arrange organs, take psychological tests to learn about your memory and personality Extra for Students- www.pbs.org/newshour/extra Browse current world events, […]
Read more →Tools for Keeping Kids Safe Online Web Watcher- www.webwatcherkids.com Allows parents to block websites and record on and offline activity, including keystrokes, IM, and email messages; used by government and law enforcement agencies. Guardian Family Monitor- www.guardiansoftware.com Let’s families track all online activity. Creates a log and […]
Read more →When kids have too much done for them by well-meaning and hardworking parents, they may fail to learn the connections between their behavior and the consequences the experience. They may neglect chores and homework thinking that rules don’t apply to them and then when their grades are […]
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